A Simple Greeting, A Powerful Connection

When Distance Becomes Isolation

Many decades ago, 88-year-old Tomoko immigrated from her native Japan to the United States. In those early years, she attended gatherings to celebrate her heritage. These events helped Tomoko feel connected to her homeland despite living some 6,000 miles away. But as Tomoko’s mobility worsened, she spent more and more days at home, alone and disconnected from her culture. Because she speaks very little English, Tomoko struggled to communicate with most people in her community. She was utterly and completely isolated.

When Tomoko began receiving Meals on Wheels services, her loneliness was softened by the presence of delivery drivers, but the language barrier left Tomoko craving deeper, more meaningful interactions.

Luckily, a man named Horng Jeng, better known as Andrew, began volunteering with Meals on Wheels. Also of Japanese descent, he has a deep love for his heritage. Even better, he is fluent in both English and Japanese.

A Connection That Felt Like Home

When Andrew first knocked on Tomoko’s door and said, “Konnichiwa,” tears came to her eyes. It had been so long since anyone had spoken to her in her native language. Tomoko knew she was no longer alone.

In the coming months, Andrew and Tomoko’s friendship blossomed. They spent many afternoons laughing and sharing stories. Andrew became a pillar of support for this isolated senior, advocating for her well-being and helping Meals on Wheels staff fully understand her needs.

Determined to reconnect Tomoko to her heritage, Andrew also researched cultural events they could attend together. With Andrew’s encouragement, Tomoko ventured out of her home and, for the first time in years, basked in the joy of Japanese food, music and traditions.

Rediscovering Culture, Rediscovering Joy

For Tomoko, Andrew’s presence brought light into her life. She felt a renewed sense of pride in her Japanese heritage, and her home became a sanctuary where culture was celebrated. For Andrew, Tomoko deepened his connection with his roots. Their friendship also taught him the importance of serving others.

Their shared story illustrates how Meals on Wheels starts with a meal but, in the end, delivers so much more.